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The Healing Codes for Pets

Friday, February 17th, 2012

People often wonder, “Can you do Healing Codes for pets? If so, how, and what prayer would you say?”

Yes, you can do The Healing Codes for pets. In fact, I have an old (12 years) dog and an even older cat (17-18 years, we’re not sure exactly). The dog seems to have arthritis and the cat has bladder issues. The vet checked and found crystals in the cat, she was on all kinds of antibiotics for several months, to no avail. (Her symptom is not using the litter box–rather unpleasant for us.)

The vet suggested an ultrasound and possible surgery for Mamacat. For a cat that old? I started doing a custom Healing Code (Q Code) for her and for the dog every day.

So far, so good. Mamacat is using her litter box properly almost all the time, and Millie, the dog, is happily taking walks with me. (Though when it’s really cold, she refuses.)

How do you know what to target in a pet? Sometimes you can guess, if the animal seems sad or anxious. But you usually won’t know. A practitioner can test and find any underlying issues, but the Healing Code itself finds and heals what’s there.

If you can’t get a custom Healing Code for your pet, it’s best to use the universal Healing Code (from the book) for this, I think.

Here’s the prayer I use for my pets: “I pray that You would find, open, and heal the source of any disease or dysfunction in [pet's name] body, mind or soul, by filling him/her and me with the love, life and light of God as I do this Code. I also pray You would magnify the effectiveness of this healing to the maximum level for [pet's name] highest and best good.”

(You may also include in the prayer how you feel about your pet’s condition: “… body, mind, or soul, as well as my own anxiety over her condition, by filling …”)

You do the Healing Code on yourself, then release it to your pet in love. Seems to work very well! (Which, by the way, rules out that The Healing Codes work because of “placebo” or “expectation.” Neither of these effects applies to animals.)

Diane Eble is a Certified Healing Codes Coach-Practitioner and worked with Dr. Alex Loyd on the editing and publishing of  The Healing Code book.

 

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Live with the End in Mind

Friday, January 27th, 2012

Stephen Covey suggests you “begin with the end in mind.” Focusing on “the end” of your life might seem morbid, but it’s actually a way to quickly get to your true priorities.

On one of the Cutting Edge calls (1/11/12), Dr. Alex Loyd suggested an exercise to help you do this. Imagine you were just told that you’d be dead in 3 months, but in those 3 months you would keep your health. What would you do differently starting now? (The call was called “How to Instantly Know What You Believe You Should Do Right Now.” If you’ve signed up for free membership on this site you can get access to the recordings.)

I just happened to read a blog post from a nurse who reported the top 5 regrets people have on their deathbed the same day I heard Dr. Loyd’s message. These 5 regrets, reported by a palliative care nurse named Bonnie Ware who worked with patients sent home to die, could be a good place to start to focus on top priorities. Here are the top 5 regrets of people on their deathbeds:

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
This was the most common regret of all, Bonnie says. “When people realize that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.”

2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.
This came from every male patient that Bonnie nursed. They missed their children’s youth and their partner’s companionship. Women also spoke of this regret, but since most were from an older generation, many had not been breadwinners. All of the men Bonnie nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.

3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
“Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others,” Bonnie writes. “They settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.” Her experience underscores what Dr. Loyd says in The Healing Code: unforgiveness is at the root of many, if not most, illnesses.

I agree with what Bonnie says next: “We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly, in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win.”

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.

It is common for anyone in a busy lifestyle to let friendships slip. But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical details of life fall away.That is all that remains in the final weeks, love and relationships.

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.
This is a surprisingly common one, Bonnie says. ” Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called ‘comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again. When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.”

Living so that you won’t have these 5 regrets, or any others, could be a good place to start. And if you need any help healing heart issues so you won’t have to live by other people’s expectations, so you can repair relationships, express your feelings or just feel happier and more at peace, get in touch with me for some coaching.

Diane Eble is a Certified Healing Codes Coach-Practitioner and worked with Dr. Alex Loyd on the editing and publishing of  The Healing Code book.

“Why Do I Feel Worse after Doing The Healing Codes?”

Saturday, January 14th, 2012

Q: “What if I feel worse when I do The Healing Codes?”

A: Occasionally, people have what’s called a “healing response” when they heal. It’s a well-known phenomenon in medicine known as the Herxheimer Reaction. It’s also referred to as Jarisch-Herxheimer Reaction, JHR, the Herxheimer Effect, the Herxheimer Response, a Herx Reaction, Herx or Herks. You may also hear it called a healing crisis, a detox reaction, or die-off syndrome.

Whatever you call it, it’s actually a sign of healing. It is an immune system reaction to the toxins (endotoxins) that are released when large amounts of pathogens are being killed off and the body does not eliminate the toxins quickly enough. Simply stated, it is a reaction that occurs when the body is detoxifying and the released toxins either exacerbate the symptoms being treated or create their own symptoms. The important thing to note is that worsening symptoms do not indicate failure of the treatment in question; in fact, usually it means just the opposite.

So while it may not feel good to go through a healing response, it is actually a sign that you are in fact healing! The biggest problem with the Herxheimer reaction is that people stop doing the thing that is causing the reaction (such as The Healing Codes), and thus discontinue the very treatment that is helping to make them better. Although the experience may not make you feel particularly good, the Herxheimer Reaction is actually a sign that healing is taking place.

In my coaching, I have a protocol I give my clients in their treatment to deal with and minimize any healing response.

Diane Eble is a Certified Healing Codes Coach-Practitioner and worked with Dr. Alex Loyd on the editing and publishing of  The Healing Code book.

A Time for Miracles

Wednesday, December 28th, 2011

Vonnie, a pianist and one of my clients, shared with me an incredible true story that happened to her the week before Christmas. I thought it was perfect for the holiday season. After all, this is a time when we reflect on the miracles in the Christmas and Hanukkah stories.

 

For years I have almost been crippled with this stabbing sensation of fear just before going on stage to perform. Even though the concerts with my group usually went well, I was a complete wreck inside before and all during the performances. No one ever had a clue how much I was suffering & would often tell me I appeared completely professional on stage.

A couple of weeks ago, I had been working on the custom Healing Code Diane gave me for the fear of making mistakes in a performance. I had not had a lot of time for practicing for this particular performance and was quite stressed about it, but the night of, by some miracle (thank you God through the Healing Codes), I actually felt calm and prepared.

However, I was not prepared for what happened at the end of the concert.

As I usually do, I had brought a light from home to attach to the piano so that I could read the music. A couple of measures into the last number, there was a loud boom and the building went completely pitch black—except for my tiny light over the piano. Believe me I was thanking God sooo much, as it would have been impossible for me to continue playing with the chorus as they kept singing. I did not know this piece by memory.

Eventually, after the number was over, the lights came back on. I later learned that a transformer had blown.  The stage manager came over to my side of the stage to check out all the wiring. I told him I was so thankful that my light stayed on when the building went dark. He asked what I meant. I told him again. He said that was impossible. I asked why and his response was that my light was on the same circuit as all the other lights in the building.  He also showed me that the outlet my light was plugged into was not a battery operated outlet.

I cried out with JOY—it was GOD!!!!  It was the power of GOD that kept my light on as I played that last piece!!!  I’ve never had anything quite like that occur in my entire life. It was like God was showing me He was and is my ultimate power source, even in the midst of something that might seem so insignificant to others—a school concert performance!  I cried happy tears all the way home that night!

Thanks, Vonnie! What a reminder that the Light that broke into the world 2000 years ago still shines today for each of us. What might happen when that Light breaks through your heart issues?

Diane Eble is a Certified Healing Codes Coach-Practitioner, writer, and publishing coach.

Healing Painful Holiday Memories

Monday, December 19th, 2011

For some people, the holidays are anything but peaceful or joyful.

Perhaps the holidays bring up memories of disappointment, tension, even trauma.

If this is the case for you, I encourage you to do a Healing Code specifically on your negative holiday memories.

First, start with your current feelings and beliefs about the holidays. Is the belief that it’s all up to you to make the holidays a perfect, special time causing you stress? Are you feeling anxiety over finding “the perfect gift”? Are you dealing with the old “not enough” feeling as you try to make your budget stretch to include gifts? Are you anticipating disappointment because you’ve always felt disappointed by Christmas? Are you feeling pressured to plan a great party, wondering if you can live up to others’ expectations?

Whatever your current stress is, rate it (1-10, 10 being the worst). Then ask yourself, “What other times have I felt this way?” Jot down those memories, rate them, then start to work on the strongest or earliest memory with a Healing Code. (Use the universal Code from The Healing Code book, or one that fits your issue from The Healing Code Manual, or get a custom Healing Code from a Practitioner.)

You can drain the negative charge from those earlier memories so that they don’t have to color your current experience. You can enjoy this year for what it is, and create new, joyful memories.

Happy holidays!

Diane Eble is a Certified Healing Codes Coach-Practitioner, writer, and publishing coach.

Too Many Memories–Where to Start?

Monday, December 5th, 2011

Q:What if you remember many traumatic events from your past and don’t know which to work on? What if there was a very traumatic event from when you were an infant which you do not remember, but have been told about? How do you know which event to address in the Healing Code?”

A:  Many questions here, so I’ll answer them one by one.

First, if you remember many traumatic events from your past, start working on the most significant one–either the earliest or the strongest. You might jot them down on a list (“my 4-year-old Christmas memory,” for instance). Put next to each event a number (1-10) in terms of how strong the feeling is in the memory. Take the one you rated highest and work on that with a Healing Code until you get it down to a 0–it doesn’t bother you at all anymore.

Then look again at your list. Pick the next strongest memory, heal that, and move on down your list.

If you feel like there are too many memories to possibly get to, you can do this: Take the similar memories, or perhaps memories from a certain time period (“my childhood memories of my father’s alcoholism” for instance, or “my sexual abuse memories”) and make a collage out of them. Shrink each memory down to a postage size stamp picture that you metaphorically paste onto a regular size sheet of paper. That collage is the picture you heal. The Healing Codes work on healing pictures, and you can certainly heal a collage of memories at one time.

Note that you may have to heal the collage from a number of different angles. There may be a fear element, anger, unforgiveness, hurt, etc. But you don’t have to heal memories one by one, especially if there are a lot of them.

As to the very early traumas, such as when you were an infant: If you know what it was (e.g., your mother told you she left you to cry in your crib and never picked you up, and now you feel enraged every time someone ignores your needs), then you can use a Healing Code to heal that. It’s interesting to me just how our hearts “know” what happened as an infant even though we can’t have the conscious memory. There is a “knowing” of the heart that is prior to language and words and conscious thoughts.

If you don’t know, but suspect there is something, that may be cause for getting some help from a Healing Codes Coach. We are trained to find those unconscious memories to help you target them, which tends to speed healing tremendously.

Diane Eble is a Certified Healing Codes Coach-Practitioner and publishing coach who worked with Dr. Loyd on The Healing Code book.

 

 

Health Benefits of Thanks-giving

Saturday, November 26th, 2011

“Gratitude is a vaccine, an antitoxin, and an antiseptic.”
— John Henry Jowett

What if you could improve your marriage, find it easier to exercise, feel less depressed, sleep better, have a healthier heart, more life satisfaction, and increase your chances of living longer–just by a very simple practice?

I’m talking about practicing what I hope you started on Thanksgiving–counting your blessings, giving thanks. Not just on one day, but as a lifestyle. You will see your health improve. If you’re doing The Healing Code as well, it will only amplify the effects.
Years ago, I went through a terrible post-partem depression after the birth of my youngest child. (This was before The Healing Codes were discovered.) One of the things that got me out of it was to keep what I call a gifts journal. I noticed all the things that felt like gifts, challenging myself to find at least 3 every day. The result was a whole new perspective, no depression, and a book called Abundant Gifts.
A growing body of research shows that gratitude is truly amazing in its physical and psychosocial benefits. Drs. Blair and Rita Justice report the following research findings on the Health Leader blog.

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When You Can’t Find Memories …

Friday, November 18th, 2011

In an earlier post, I answered a question about what to do if you have too many memories. Here is the opposite problem: what to do if you can’t find any earlier memories connected to the feeling in your issue.

Q: “I have health problems but don’t know what caused them. I can’t remember anything in my past that may have brought them on. How do I do a Healing Code without having pictures to heal from the past? Can I just picture the health problem I have now?”

A: You don’t always need to find earlier pictures, though it is helpful and seems to speed up the healing when you can find them. Your heart always finds and heals many earlier memories without your being aware of them. It just speeds up the process if you can access at least some of the earlier memories. So, it may take you a little longer to heal your physical issue if you don’t have memories. Be patient with the process.

The best way to try to access memories is to ask yourself how you feel about your physical issue. Then ask yourself when is another time you felt that way about anything, not just a similar issue.

Many clients cannot remember much from childhood. That is usually a sign that there is quite a lot of “heart junk” underneath. Some people have what Dr. Bradley Nelson calls a “heart wall” that keeps them from being in touch with their hearts.

The Healing Codes can heal a heart wall, and in fact, I believe it’s automatically a part of the process. It doesn’t hurt, however, to put “my heart wall” in the prayer of intention. What I and many clients find is that the memories do start to come after you’ve been doing the Healing Codes for a while.

Often the memories come only after they’ve healed. If you remember something and there is a perfect peace about it, that’s your heart giving you a piece of your life back, all healed. It was one of the wonderful things I discovered about The Healing Codes that I did not expect.

There is a difference, however, between peace and numbness. If an earlier memory surfaces and you feel numb about it rather than peaceful, that’s a signal it’s a memory that wants to be healed. Put it in the prayer of intention before you do your Healing Code, even if you can’t rate it. Work on it until you feel peace, not numbness.

By the way, a reminder: When doing a Healing Code, make sure you’re picturing something positive, not your issue. You only get in touch with your issue enough to rate it and put it in the initial prayer of intention. Then you switch to focusing on the positive Truth Focus Statements or a Love Picture.

Diane Eble is a Certified Healing Codes Coach-Practitioner and the editor of The Healing Code. If you would like a free copy of her personal Truth Focus Statements in each of the 12 Healing Code categories for your personal use, visit her site at www.healingcodescoaching.com.

My Favorite “Love Picture”

Friday, November 11th, 2011

One of the most common questions people have concerning doing The Healing Codes is, “What do I focus on while doing a Healing Code?”

The main thing is to focus on something positive to replace the false, negative beliefs and images in the memory you’re trying to heal. . This can be a Truth Focus Statement (suggestions are in the Manual, on the book registration site, and on my site). It can also be a very positive memory you have of a time when you felt loved, secure, peaceful. Or even a memory you make up.

Such a “Love Picture” can promote healing effects. What we’re really trying to do is replace the negative with a positive. Ideally, even if you use a Truth Focus Statement (words), what you want to do is feel the truth of the words.  Dr. Alex Loyd teaches that words are the language of the mind, while images and feelings are the language of the heart. Both the mind and the heart need to be healed.

Positive images can have a very healing effect. Images go deeper, because images are what we had as babies, before we knew words. Using healing images will heal the deeper parts of us.

Here is my favorite Love Picture, which my clients enjoy using as well. I believe it addresses many of the deepest hurts and fears. It speaks to the sense of being insignificant. It speaks to fear. To feeling like “it’s all up to me.” It speaks to insecurity, to feeling unloved, to worry.

If it resonates with you, use it. Let God change it for you. Listen to what he may be saying to you personally. Take it and make it your own:

Picture yourself as a child, crawling up on Jesus’ (or your Heavenly Father’s) lap. He welcomes you, and holds you securely with one arm–his left arm.  With his right arm he is conducting all the affairs of your life and indeed, the whole world, as a conductor would conduct an amazing symphony.

In this picture he is also singing. With you on his lap, he is singing about how much he loves you, how delighted he is with you. He is singing, “You are my beloved son/daughter, with you I am well pleased.” He tells you to rest, since he has done everything that needs to be done. All you have to do is receive all he has for you. He is bursting with joy at all the gifts he has for you..

He also rejoices in his own ability to conduct the affairs of your life and the whole world, how he will make sure everything is OK. Every atom in the universe is subject to him, and he is Love, and wisdom, and he is the mighty warrior who has conquered everything and will one day finish what he started, to make all things new.

He also rejoices in his own ability to conduct the affairs of your life and the whole world, how he will make sure everything is OK. Listen to him singing; feel his love and delight in you, as well as his quiet confidence in his ability to save and to conduct the affairs of the whole universe. From the smallest subatomic particle to the details of your life to whatever it takes to keep the heavenly bodies in place, he is quietly confident in his ability to take care of anything and everything and to work it all into a beautiful harmony.*

*This Love Picture is based on many scriptures, but especially from Hebrews and my favorite verse in the Bible, Zephaniah 3:17.

Diane Eble is a Certified Healing Codes Coach-Practitioner. Visit her site at www.healingcodescoaching.com for her personal Truth Focus Statements based on the Bible.

Can You Spare a Smile?

Friday, November 4th, 2011

In my work as a Healing Codes Coach-Practitioner, helping people heal their “heart issues,” I hear some incredibly sad stories.

Stories of nearly unspeakable cruelty, doled out by people who themselves are damaged.

You and I walk among wounded people. Some people hide their scars pretty well. Some do not.

One man told of being at a church gathering. Because of health issues and a son with major difficulties, the man has been on disability, unable to work. At the gathering, the usual, “So, what do you do for a living?” question was asked. The man had no ready answer. As he stumbled through the truth, he noted how the other men looked away, not sure how to handle such honesty.

The man never wanted to go back to that group again. Acceptance? No. He felt judged and dismissed. Yet another incident to add to his pile of “I’m unworthy” beliefs.

I heard a story told about a young woman who ended her life by jumping off a bridge. When police went through her pockets, looking for a clue as to why she did it, they found a note.

“If only one person had smiled at me today, I would not have jumped.”

A simple smile would have saved her life.

A simple smile and a “That must be a hard place to be right now” could have turned my client’s uncomfortable situation into an experience of acceptance.

Take the time to look into someone’s eyes today and smile. Take a moment to really listen to what a person says, and let your heart form words of acceptance, of life.

Realize that nobody has their act together. We are all walking wounded, to some extent. We all long for the same things: acceptance, significance, peace, love.

And hope.

Just a smile can give a small measure of these things to someone else. Energy is exchanged. I believe that positive always wins. Light always drives away darkness, never the other way around.

Give the “abundant gift” of a simple smile. A few words of affirmation and acceptance. Turn the light on.

It just may save a life.

Diane Eble is the author of Abundant Gifts and a Certified Healing Codes Coach-Practitioner

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