The Healing Codes – Dr. Alex Answers – What about when I am sick?

sickHow can The Healing Codes help you figure out what you really want when you are sick?

Question:  I have a fever of about 101. What I think I want here, right, is to feel better physically, to be well, to not be sick. Do you say that’s not what I really want?

Dr. Alex Loyd: I can’t answer that question. You have to answer the question. You would go through the process. Okay, why do I want to feel better? That’s a fine thing to start with, “I want to feel better.” A whole lot of people have that. Why do I want to feel better? What I believe, because I did this in my practice in counseling and therapy before I ever heard about that study. I came up with that same conclusion that that’s really what everybody wants whether they know it or not.

Yes, I would say that in my experience, which may be wrong at any time, and opinion, which is usually wrong, I would say that isn’t what you really want. I think what you really want is love, joy and peace and self worth. If you have that, you can feel good even when you’re sick.

You know what I mean by that?

Question: Oh yeah!

Dr. Alex Loyd: You can feel good even when you’re sick. You can have joy even when you’re sick. You can have peace even when you’re sick. You can feel good about yourself even when you’re sick. And you can find, this is really important too, Lorrie, when you do that and you focus on what you really want rather than what you think you want you are able to have gratitude.

Question: Yes, I like that.

Dr. Alex Loyd: You can sit there and say, “You know what? I’ve got 101 fever but thank you that I don’t have something worse than that. Thank you that maybe I get a little time to rest while I’m sick.”

Question: And thank you that my body is working well. Thank you for that!

Dr. Alex Loyd: To me it is an absolutely lynch pin “ah-ha” attitude changer to say when something comes up in your day when you get angry, when you get frustrated, when you’re sad, when you’re afraid or worried, go through this simple little process to determine for you “what do I really want here?” I’m angry because I think I want the stock market to start going up instead of going down like a one of those rides at the fair that goes straight down. I’m watching my money trickle away. I think that’s what I really want and so I’m angry because I’m watching my money deplete. Well, it helps tremendously and almost instantly if you tell yourself, “No, no, no. That is a lie. That’s not what I really want.” What I really want – discover this for yourself. Don’t take my word for it. Continue to ask why. What I really want is to feel love and joy and peace and to feel good about me.

When you do that and say “I refuse to focus on what I think I want any more. I’m going to focus on what I really want.” Then that love, joy, peace and feeling good about yourself starts to really translate into your body, your feelings, your thinking. It can change your day around on a dime.

What can help you with your spiritual issues of the heart when you are sick?  Why not start with The Heart Issues Finder?   It is free, takes about 10 minutes and you will get the results immediately.  This is a great starting place to help you figure out WHAT your heart issues are and you can take the Heart Issues Finder as many times as you want – always free – to help in your Healing Codes journey.

Healing the Fears of Alzheimer’s, Dementia and Aging


We are starting a program called The Intensive-Healing the fears of Alzheimer’s, dementia and aging on August 10, 2015.

This program is not for everyone. In fact, you may quickly determine if it would be good for you to participate. This Intensive is focused on healing beliefs that are fear-filled.

You may ask yourself which of these you believe:

1.     You are worried that Alzheimer’s and dementia are inevitable.

2.     You just don’t want to deal with this subject.

3.     You are relying on the pharmaceutical industry and the medical establishment to find a treatment or cure.

4.     You are terrified at the prospect of this.

5.     You are willing to look at the underlying causes of these diseases.

6.     You aren’t completely willing to accept medicine’s “causes unknown” as the answer.

7.  You are willing to work to change your beliefs that are interfering with your health and happiness.

8.     You are willing to look at a wide range of causative factors that may be involved:

·       Spiritual-energetic

·       Mental-emotional

·       Chemical-physical

·       Environmental

·       Hormonal-enzymatic

·       Genetics

There was a Q&A session on Saturday, August 8.  Please listen to the replay – there were MANY good questions and answers.


For more information, right now, about the Intensive itself that starts on Monday, August 10, 2015 at 1 PM US Eastern time (New York),
click here and please join us!

Don’t be Jealous!

Don't be jealousChristian educator Henrietta Mears said, ‘The man who keeps busy helping the man below him, won’t have time to be jealous of the man above him.’ Doctor Seuss wrote hundreds of children’s stories. One of his most famous is about the Grinch, a cartoon character who gets so jealous of others that he ends up biting himself. Jealousy does that. It targets others, but ends up consuming you. God blessed King Saul and lifted him from obscurity to the highest position in Israel. But when David slew Goliath and won the adulation of the people, Saul started acting insecure and threatened. Instead of rejoicing that God had sent David to help him, he grew resentful and became ‘David’s enemy from that time forward’ (1 Samuel 18:9). The Bible says, ‘A peaceful heart leads to a healthy body; jealousy is like cancer in the bones.’ Jealousy is malignant; left unchecked it can destroy every relationship in your life. It poisons your attitude by making you compare yourself with others. Jealousy Saul’s jealousy cost him his throne, his family, his respect in the eyes of the people, and ultimately his life. Don’t let jealousy do that to you. Repent before it robs you of your destiny. God made all of us His children when none of us deserved it. So when you feel resentful of somebody else’s blessings, ask God to remind you of the many ways in which He has blessed you even when you didn’t deserve it.

A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones. Proverbs 14:30


The above devotion was written/compiled from multiple sources by Tim Hetzner, President of Lutheran Church Charities and used here with permission.



Looking In the Right Mirror

Looking in the right mirrorThe world’s best fashion designers are concerned with the total look of the models they send down the catwalk. They must have perfect accessories and the right hairstyle, make-up, etc.

And it’s the same with God. He created you as a whole person with specific features, personality traits, and emotional strengths. He designed you to be a vibrant, thinking, feeling and fully-functioning human being with your own unique attractiveness. But He endowed you with more than just physical appearance. He gave you talents and spiritual gifts – inner qualities He wants you to develop and use for His purposes. What you are on the inside should determine how you see yourself on the outside.

When your looks determine your worth, a few extra pounds can wipe you out; so can magazine covers that trumpet beauty without character. You’re looking in the wrong mirror!

When your self-worth comes from God instead of people, you can wear a $10 outfit from a charity shop or a $1000 one from an up-scale boutique. You are fine either way, because you recognize that your outer appearance doesn’t define who you are, or determine your worth in God’s eyes. Inner beauty can’t be bought, taken off a rack, applied like make-up or put on like a new suit. It’s an ‘inside job’. So look at yourself today in God’s mirror and try to see what He values most: inner beauty.

The above devotion was written/compiled from multiple sources by Tim Hetzner, President of Lutheran Church Charities and used here with permission.

You ARE In A Relationship

The Relationship PuzzleEven if you are single and alone, you are in a relationship. We are ALL in several relationships. Of course, there are relationships with others but you are also in a relationship with yourself and you are in a relationship with God.

You know that at times one or more of the relationships can be truly can be “puzzling”. That is why Dr. Loyd has invited some of the best known experts in the field of relationship dynamics and interpersonal relationships to share with you solutions to what he is am calling “The Relationship Puzzle”. Each of these experts are going to bring their “A GAME” to this series to help you “put the pieces together of the relationship puzzle.”

Join This FREE Multi-Speaker, Multi-Part Event and Listen In As Ten Relationship Experts Help You Solve “The Relationship Puzzle”

You’ll learn…

  • What The New Paradigm is In Relationships Today
  • The Power of Relationships
  • The Power of Mirroring in Relationships and How It Can Help
  • How You Can Release Your Hidden Barriers and Become Magnetic to Love
  • How to Improve Your Relationship With Your Self as It Relates to Your Career
  • How Following Your Passion Will Improve Your Relationships with Self and Others
  • … and much, much more!

It costs nothing for you to check it out and it costs nothing for you to attend, so get the details and register for this life changing event. You’ll be glad you did!

Oh – and don’t delay. It starts tomorrow!