How can The Healing Codes help you figure out what you really want when you are sick?
Question: I have a fever of about 101. What I think I want here, right, is to feel better physically, to be well, to not be sick. Do you say that’s not what I really want?
Dr. Alex Loyd: I can’t answer that question. You have to answer the question. You would go through the process. Okay, why do I want to feel better? That’s a fine thing to start with, “I want to feel better.” A whole lot of people have that. Why do I want to feel better? What I believe, because I did this in my practice in counseling and therapy before I ever heard about that study. I came up with that same conclusion that that’s really what everybody wants whether they know it or not.
Yes, I would say that in my experience, which may be wrong at any time, and opinion, which is usually wrong, I would say that isn’t what you really want. I think what you really want is love, joy and peace and self worth. If you have that, you can feel good even when you’re sick.
You know what I mean by that?
Question: Oh yeah!
Dr. Alex Loyd: You can feel good even when you’re sick. You can have joy even when you’re sick. You can have peace even when you’re sick. You can feel good about yourself even when you’re sick. And you can find, this is really important too, Lorrie, when you do that and you focus on what you really want rather than what you think you want you are able to have gratitude.
Question: Yes, I like that.
Dr. Alex Loyd: You can sit there and say, “You know what? I’ve got 101 fever but thank you that I don’t have something worse than that. Thank you that maybe I get a little time to rest while I’m sick.”
Question: And thank you that my body is working well. Thank you for that!
Dr. Alex Loyd: To me it is an absolutely lynch pin “ah-ha” attitude changer to say when something comes up in your day when you get angry, when you get frustrated, when you’re sad, when you’re afraid or worried, go through this simple little process to determine for you “what do I really want here?” I’m angry because I think I want the stock market to start going up instead of going down like a one of those rides at the fair that goes straight down. I’m watching my money trickle away. I think that’s what I really want and so I’m angry because I’m watching my money deplete. Well, it helps tremendously and almost instantly if you tell yourself, “No, no, no. That is a lie. That’s not what I really want.” What I really want – discover this for yourself. Don’t take my word for it. Continue to ask why. What I really want is to feel love and joy and peace and to feel good about me.
When you do that and say “I refuse to focus on what I think I want any more. I’m going to focus on what I really want.” Then that love, joy, peace and feeling good about yourself starts to really translate into your body, your feelings, your thinking. It can change your day around on a dime.
What can help you with your spiritual issues of the heart when you are sick? Why not start with The Heart Issues Finder? It is free, takes about 10 minutes and you will get the results immediately. This is a great starting place to help you figure out WHAT your heart issues are and you can take the Heart Issues Finder as many times as you want – always free – to help in your Healing Codes journey.