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Archive for issues of the heart

The Healing Codes Success Myths

Wednesday, January 18th, 2012

Let’s look at some common success myths:

  1. We believe success is impossible, so we criticize it. Because we want to believe that life should be easy, we assume anything that is difficult must be impossible. Then when success eludes us we are tempted to throw in the towel and say, ‘Who wants success anyway?’ And if success is achieved by anyone we consider less worthy than ourselves, we really get ‘steamed’.
  2. We believe success is mystical, so we search for it. The problem is, we want the rewards without paying the price. Seth Godin says, ‘We need to stop shopping for lightning bolts. You do not win an Olympic medal with a few weeks of intensive training. There’s no such thing as an overnight opera sensation. Great companies [and great churches] do not spring up overnight…every great thing has been built in exactly the same way: bit by bit, step by step, little by little’.
  3.  We believe success comes by chance, so we hope for it. We say, ‘She just happened to be in the right place at the right time.’ Wrong! The chances of that happening are about as good as your chances of winning the Lottery – 18 million to one. If you are really serious about success, you will agree with one small business owner who had a sign posted that read: ‘The 57 Rules of Success.’ Rule One: Deliver the goods. Rule Two: The other 56 do not matter.’
  4. We believe success is the result of opportunity, so we wait for it. Many people who work hard but do not seem to get anywhere, believe that the only thing they need is ‘a break.’ Their motto is, ‘if only.’ If only my boss would cut me some slack… if only our church was in a better area of town… if only I had start-up capital… if only I had married someone different. Sound familiar? People who do nothing more than wait for opportunity, are neither able to see it or seize it when it comes.
  5. We think success comes from having leverage, so we work for it. This idea is reinforced by the words of people like industrialist Andrew Carnegie: ‘Success is the power with which to acquire whatever one demands of life.’ So we take that a step further, assuming all successful people have taken advantage of others to get to where they are, and begin to look for ways to manipulate people too. We believe we can force our way to success, but it does not work.
  6. We believe success comes from connections, so we strive to make them. People who believe in connections think they would have ‘had it made,’ if only they had been born into the right family or met the right person. But those beliefs are misplaced. Knowing good people has its rewards. But connections alone will not improve your life if you are off track.

Do you know that using The Healing Codes will help you overcome YOUR Success Myths?

January 10, 2012

The Cutting Edge, At the Heart of Health will be on Wednesday at 1pm Central, 2pm Eastern.

Dr. Loyd is back this week and will speak to us about ‘ How to instantly know what you believe you should do RIGHT NOW!’

You don’t want to miss this. And you will have the opportunity to get a custom code from JoHanna Chan, a Certified Healing Codes practitioner.

If you are registered for the free Membership, you will get an e-mail with the dial in details and you can also find that information in your Member area. If you are a free Member you will have the ability to listen over the web – right on your own computer through your speakers without the need to dial in!! So if you’ve wanted to listen without having to use your phone, this is your chance.

Watch your mail or check the Member page the phone number!

If you are NOT yet registered (remember, registration is free), you can register easily by clicking on this Membership Registration link. You will also see many of the other benefits of free registration.

Join E. Thomas Costello, head of The Healing Codes Coaching Program, for the Thursday Night Open Forum Coaching call.

This Open Forum Coaching call is at 8:30PM Eastern Time and is scheduled for 1 hour but ALWAYS lasts longer. Tom tries to answer every question!

You have the chance to listen over your computer so you don’t have to make a long distance phone call. This format also lets you key your Healing Codes questions into a question box for Tom to answer on the call. Of course, if you want to dial in and listen over the phone, you can still do that!

If you are a Member, you will get an e-mail with the dial in AND web ‘listen in’ information. It is also on your Member page.

If you are not a Member, go ahead and join so you can take part in this Open Forum Coaching. More and more people are listening and participating via the web. Register here for free and join Tom Thursday night to ask your questions.

Remember – THIS IS NOT THE PLACE TO ASK QUESTIONS! Ask them on the call. You have 2 places where you can ask questions on the call – live or on the internet. Questions asked as comments here will not be answered. Thanks

January 3, 2012

The Cutting Edge, At the Heart of Health will be on Wednesday at 1pm Central, 2pm Eastern.

This week we are privileged to hear E. Thomas Costello, head of The Healing Codes Practitioners program, speak to us about  ‘And she said, “We know so little about healing.”

You don’t want to miss this. And you will have the opportunity to get a custom code from JoHanna Chan, a Certified Healing Codes practitioner.

If you are registered for the free Membership, you will get an e-mail with the dial in details and you can also find that information in your Member area. If you are a free Member you will have the ability to listen over the web – right on your own computer through your speakers without the need to dial in!! So if you’ve wanted to listen without having to use your phone, this is your chance.

Watch your mail or check the Member page the phone number!

If you are NOT yet registered (remember, registration is free), you can register easily by clicking on this Membership Registration link. You will also see many of the other benefits of free registration.

Join E. Thomas Costello, head of The Healing Codes Coaching Program, for the Thursday Night Open Forum Coaching call.

This Open Forum Coaching call is at 8:30PM Eastern Time and is scheduled for 1 hour but ALWAYS lasts longer. Tom tries to answer every question!

You have the chance to listen over your computer so you don’t have to make a long distance phone call. This format also lets you key your Healing Codes questions into a question box for Tom to answer on the call. Of course, if you want to dial in and listen over the phone, you can still do that!

If you are a Member, you will get an e-mail with the dial in AND web ‘listen in’ information. It is also on your Member page.

If you are not a Member, go ahead and join so you can take part in this Open Forum Coaching. More and more people are listening and participating via the web. Register here for free and join Tom Thursday night to ask your questions.

Remember – THIS IS NOT THE PLACE TO ASK QUESTIONS! Ask them on the call. You have 2 places where you can ask questions on the call – live or on the internet. Questions asked as comments here will not be answered. Thanks

December 28 ,2011

The Cutting Edge, At the Heart of Health will be on Wednesday at 1pm Central, 2pm Eastern.

This week we are privileged to hear E. Thomas Costello, head of The Healing Codes Practitioners program, speak to us about ‘Are We Ending or Are We Beginning?

You don’t want to miss this. And you will have the opportunity to get a custom code from JoHanna Chan, a Certified Healing Codes practitioner.

If you are registered for the free Membership, you will get an e-mail with the dial in details and you can also find that information in your Member area. If you are a free Member you will have the ability to listen over the web – right on your own computer through your speakers without the need to dial in!! So if you’ve wanted to listen without having to use your phone, this is your chance.

Watch your mail or check the Member page the phone number!

If you are NOT yet registered (remember, registration is free), you can register easily by clicking on this Membership Registration link. You will also see many of the other benefits of free registration.

Join E. Thomas Costello, head of  The Healing Codes Coaching Program,  for the Thursday Night Open Forum Coaching call.

This Open Forum Coaching call is at 8:30PM Eastern Time and is scheduled for 1 hour but ALWAYS lasts longer. Tom tries to answer every question!

You have the chance to listen over your computer so you don’t have to make a long distance phone call. This format also lets you key your Healing Codes questions into a question box for Tom to answer on the call. Of course, if you want to dial in and listen over the phone, you can still do that!

If you are a Member, you will get an e-mail with the dial in AND web ‘listen in’ information. It is also on your Member page.

If you are not a Member, go ahead and join so you can take part in this Open Forum Coaching. More and more people are listening and participating via the web. Register here for free and join Tom Thursday night to ask your questions.

Can You Spare a Smile?

Friday, November 4th, 2011

In my work as a Healing Codes Coach-Practitioner, helping people heal their “heart issues,” I hear some incredibly sad stories.

Stories of nearly unspeakable cruelty, doled out by people who themselves are damaged.

You and I walk among wounded people. Some people hide their scars pretty well. Some do not.

One man told of being at a church gathering. Because of health issues and a son with major difficulties, the man has been on disability, unable to work. At the gathering, the usual, “So, what do you do for a living?” question was asked. The man had no ready answer. As he stumbled through the truth, he noted how the other men looked away, not sure how to handle such honesty.

The man never wanted to go back to that group again. Acceptance? No. He felt judged and dismissed. Yet another incident to add to his pile of “I’m unworthy” beliefs.

I heard a story told about a young woman who ended her life by jumping off a bridge. When police went through her pockets, looking for a clue as to why she did it, they found a note.

“If only one person had smiled at me today, I would not have jumped.”

A simple smile would have saved her life.

A simple smile and a “That must be a hard place to be right now” could have turned my client’s uncomfortable situation into an experience of acceptance.

Take the time to look into someone’s eyes today and smile. Take a moment to really listen to what a person says, and let your heart form words of acceptance, of life.

Realize that nobody has their act together. We are all walking wounded, to some extent. We all long for the same things: acceptance, significance, peace, love.

And hope.

Just a smile can give a small measure of these things to someone else. Energy is exchanged. I believe that positive always wins. Light always drives away darkness, never the other way around.

Give the “abundant gift” of a simple smile. A few words of affirmation and acceptance. Turn the light on.

It just may save a life.

Diane Eble is the author of Abundant Gifts and a Certified Healing Codes Coach-Practitioner

Refuse to Quit

Monday, October 17th, 2011

The lesson here for us folks doing The Healing Codes is REFUSE TO QUIT – Keep working on yourself to attain the highest level of inner peace you can.  Commit to doing the codes, every day, for the rest of your life – aiming at the issues of your spiritual heart.  As you do this, you will get closer to what is most important in your life!  It doesn’t get much better than that.

Refuse to Quit

An agency once created an advert for a Rolls Royce that said: ‘At 60 mph the loudest noise in the new Rolls-Royce is the electric clock.’ When they ran the ad by a company executive he smiled and said, ‘I guess we’ve got to do something about that clock!’ Never stop trying to do it better!

The moment you start believing you’re successful enough or smart enough to rest on your laurels you’re in trouble. You’ve set a ceiling on your potential!  Success belongs to the one who’ll show up early, stay late, go the extra mile and keep asking, ‘Is there a better way?’

A young man once asked Henry Ford, ‘How can I make a name for myself and be successful?’ Ford replied, ‘Decide what you want then stick with it. Never deviate from your course no matter how long it takes or how rough the road, until you’ve accomplished your purpose.’ Everybody wants what successful people have, they just don’t want to do what successful people do to get it! Successful people don’t quit! No matter how many times they fall, they get back up and start over. Paul J Meyer says, ‘Ninety-nine percent of those who fail are not actually defeated. They simply quit.’ So, refuse to quit.

Written by Tim Hetzner and use with permission.

We are continuing with the new form (with a new twist to make the lines clearer) at for the Thursday Night Open Forum Coaching call with E. Thomas Costello, head of The Healing Codes coaching program.

This Open Forum Coaching call is at 8:30PM Eastern Time and is scheduled for 1 hour but ALWAYS lasts longer. Tom tries to answer every question!

You have the chance to listen over your computer so you don’t have to make a long distance phone call. This format also lets you key your Healing Codes questions into a question box for Tom to answer on the call. Of course, if you want to dial in and listen over the phone, you can still do that!

If you are a Member, you will get an e-mail with the dial in AND web ‘listen in’ information. It is also on your Member page.

If you are not a Member, go ahead and join so you can take part in this experiment too. More and more people are listening and participating via the web. Register here for free and join Tom Thursday night to ask your questions.

Remember, we have a new phone number! Watch for that on the Member page and in your e-mail.

Hope to see you tonight!

Remember – THIS IS NOT THE PLACE TO ASK QUESTIONS! Ask them on the call. Questions asked as comments here will not be answered. Thanks

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