Healing “Mother Issues”

Holidays like Mother’s Day are bound to stir up issues, whether you’re a mother or not.

Everyone has had a mother.

And, because no mother is a perfect mother, very likely you have “heart issues” connected to negative memories of your mother.

In addition, if you’re also a mother yourself, you may have heart issues connected to your own mothering. Again, because none of us is perfect, we can all look back on things we wish we’d done differently.

So I would like to give you a custom Healing Code for any and all negative memories you have concerning “mother issues,” whether they concern your mother or your own mothering.Unknown Object

This custom Healing Code will be good for 7 days after you begin it. Look for all memories with any kind of negative feeling in them: guilt, anger, abandonment, fear, disgust, anxiety, worry, grief, to name just a few.

Start with the strongest negative feeling. Then look for other “mom” memories with the same feelings in it. When those, say, guilt memories don’t bother you anymore, look for the next strongest feeling, the memories attached to them, and heal those with this same Healing Code. (If you don’t know how to do a Healing Code, please watch my video at to learn how to do a Healing Code. You would substitute the positions below for The Healing Code in the video.)

Here is the prayer of intention I suggest (pray at the beginning only, before you do the Code):

“Dear God, I pray that you would find, open, and heal all known and hidden negative images, unhealthy beliefs,  destructive cellular and generational memories, harmful actions, unforgiveness and wrong perceptions, whether experienced, witnessed, imagined, dreamed, inherited or absorbed, and all resulting physical issues [can name them: “especially …”], related to [issue] from [name memories] by filling me with the love, life, and light of your presence. Please also break any unhealthy soul ties, curses, vows and contracts, magnify the effectiveness of this healing to the maximum level for my highest good, at an optimal pace, and restore everything in mind, body, soul and spirit to your intended design. Thank you, Lord, for your willingness and ability to do these things.”

Here is the custom code:

  • left Adam’s apple, right temple
  • both hands jaws
  • left temple, right bridge
  • both Adam’s apple
  • left temple, right jaw
  • 5-10 minutes, 1-3x/day
  • strong for one week after you start (may last longer)

I also suggest, when you are done with this Healing Code, that you release it to your mother (if still living) and any children you might have, after each session. Simply say, “I release the full effects of this healing to [name(s)], in love, insofar as this issue affects them.”

The healing will continue to those affected by your issue. We are connected energetically to those we are close to, so we can use that to spread the healing (one of the wonderful things about The Healing Codes).

Diane Eble is a Certified Healing Codes Coach-Practitioner and worked with Dr. Alex Loyd on the editing and publishing of The Healing Code book. For articles and help with healing heart issues, visit her website at