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How to Deepen Your Spiritual Practice this Year While Doing The Healing Codes …

Jeanine Byers, Certified Healing Codes PractitionerWhat do you think about when you’re doing the codes?

Have you ever used them to deepen your spiritual connection or practice? Here are three suggestions for doing that this year as you do the codes.

(1) Bathe each issue you have chosen for healing with contemplative prayer…
I think of contemplative prayer as a holy moment between you and the divine, or you and the universe, during which you surround the issue with love and compassion and as a result, your heart opens the door to hope.

“Contemplation takes time and cannot be rushed through. It is a loving look, we gaze upon the world with eyes of compassion and in the process discover our own heart awakening and new worlds being formed there. Contemplation gazes on the real which is not always beautiful or pleasing. The real is the heart of things below the surface. The contemplative sees suffering and brings deep compassion and awareness.”–Christine Valters Paintner

So each day as you continue doing the codes, choose one code time (or more, if you’d like) and devote it to heart-opening contemplation.

(2) Create the new story in your mind that will result from the healing you hope to experience with the codes.
What will change as those memories and beliefs heal? Before one of your code sessions for the day, think for a moment about the issue you are working on.
This issue is your “before” story. While doing the codes, give some time to imagining an “after” for yourself.

(3) Ask for intuitive guidance…
During one of your code times, ask for guidance or insight about the issue itself, or action steps you can take that will help to resolve it or support the healing work you are doing with the codes. When asking for guidance, ask if there are any underlying causes of this issue that you need to know more about in order to empower the healing process.

As always, I wish you bright blessings as you continue your work with the codes!

Jeanine Byers

Remember you are meant to heal
http://www.meanttoheal.com

What if The Healing Codes is Not Working the Way You Expect – Part 5

TOP FIVE TROUBLESHOOTING QUESTIONS TO ASK IF THE HEALING CODES ISN’T WORKING THE WAY YOU EXPECTED: PART FIVE

Did this issue originate before I was born or while I was preverbal?

If you have been finding and healing memories for your issue but still feel like you’re stuck, it may be a problem that began before you were born, because of issues that occurred during the time your mother was pregnant with you or during the earliest years when you couldn’t even put words together to explain to yourself what was happening.

“Studies have demonstrated that a mother’s stress responses during pregnancy directly affect the developing infant (Scaer, 2005); indeed, … children can actually be born with PTSD symptoms.” Cherie Spehar

Those are definitely the hardest memories to find, and they can be the most difficult ones to heal. With any memories, whether they happened before birth or are preverbal, often just acknowledging that you are including them in the healing process is all it takes to target them. So if you suspect that you have memories that early or from before you were born, you can have a Healing Codes coach test to confirm it or just add a provision for that possibility to your prayer before doing the codes.

In each of these cases I’ve presented in this series, it can help to have a Healing Codes coach test you to make sure these problems are not a negative influence on your healing experience. But if you are not working with a coach right now, and something seems to be keeping your Healing Codes experience from going the way it should, I recommend considering these questions.

For any that seem likely for you, include them in your prayer or statement of intention. Even if you are not sure, you can add them in as possibilities. And that way, you’ll know you are addressing the problem in each code session.

Jeanine Byers

Know that you are meant to heal

http://www.meanttoheal.com
Here is a link to Part 1

Here is a link to Part 2

Here is a link to Part 3

Here is a link to Part 4

What if The Healing Codes is Not Working the Way You Expect – Part 4

TOP FIVE TROUBLESHOOTING QUESTIONS TO ASK IF THE HEALING CODES ISN’T WORKING THE WAY YOU EXPECTED: PART FOUR

Is this issue a generational one?

“A Family Legacy is the collection of belief and energetic blocks that build generation upon generation until it is so restrictive to your personal growth that is defines you in uncomfortable ways. Take a moment the next time an old unhealthy behavior comes up and ask it; are you mine or do you belong to someone else’s past.  Sometime what you need to let go of didn’t belong to you in the first place.” –Jacki Smith

During my training to be a counselor all those years ago, one of the things that was impressed upon us was that family problems tend to get worse with each generation and that we could expect to see that in the lives of the people in the families we would work with as therapists. As an individual family member trying to heal using The Healing Codes, you might be feeling the weight of family history in the difficulty you’re having.

If the issue you’re working on is one you know has been a problem your parents and/or grandparents struggled with, then you have a generational issue on your hands and can make generational healing a part of your code prayer or intention statement. But even if you aren’t aware of any family history with your issue, you might want to tack on something like “and any generational memories and beliefs connected to this issue,” just in case.

Jeanine Byers

Know That You Are Meant to Heal

http://www.meanttoheal.com

Here is a link to Part 1

Here is a link to Part 2

Here is a link to Part 3

What if The Healing Codes is Not Working the Way You Expect? Part 3

TOP FIVE TROUBLESHOOTING QUESTIONS TO ASK IF THE HEALING CODES ISN’T WORKING THE WAY YOU EXPECTED: PART THREE

Is stress getting in your way?

Are you experiencing some form of ongoing stress? Or sudden stress?

Let me give you an example. If you are doing codes for an ongoing health concern but you recently had a very upsetting fight with your best friend, and it has been practically all you can think about for the past few days, that stress is definitely going to interfere with your experience of doing the Healing Codes.

What I recommend to my clients is that if something has happened recently that was very stressful, they take at least one of their code times each day to focus on that stress until it lessens dramatically or goes away completely.

But what if you have an ongoing stressor?

Like a very strained relationship with a family member you see frequently. Or an angry boss who makes every workday unpleasant.

In situations like that, there are three options to consider…

(1)    You can make that situation your primary issue for a while, until it is less troubling. Because, believe me, ongoing stress will divide your focus. You’re telling your bodymindspirit to use the energy you’re directing its way to heal the issue you’ve chosen, but it wants to help you resolve that stress.

(2)    The other option is to do one code a day for that stress on an ongoing basis. I don’t recommend this one on a long-term basis, but it might work out okay for a week or so. Longer than that might be a strain on your body’s resources, which would make healing responses more likely.

(3)    Don’t use the codes for your stress but find & choose other ways to lessen your experience of stress. Sleep more, take chamomile tea to work, minimize your contact with the family member you have the strained relationship with and make sure you are taking very good care of yourself in other ways. Be proactive about lessening that stress you’re experiencing. Don’t just put up with it.

Jeanine Byers

Know that you are meant to heal

http://www.meanttoheal.com

Here is a link to Part 1

Here is a link to Part 2

What if The Healing Codes is Not Working the Way You Expect? Part 2

TOP FIVE TROUBLESHOOTING QUESTIONS TO ASK IF THE HEALING CODES ISN’T WORKING THE WAY YOU EXPECTED: PART TWO

Do I have some resistance to healing this issue?

In the eleven years that I have been privileged to witness healing in the lives of my Healing Codes clients, I can’t count the number of times we have discovered that the problem that seemed to be monkeying up the works for them was shadow resistance or self-sabotage.

Now, sometimes, it was obvious, because these clients would miss multiple sessions or be there when I called but admit that they hadn’t been doing the codes. But most of the time their resistance was hiding!

All we would know, initially, is that something was wrong. Or that my clients seemed stuck in some way that we were unable to explain.

Eventually, after using my intuitive testing process to test other possibilities, it would occur to me to test for resistance or self-sabotage and once we got a “yes,” we’d understand that that was what was going on all that time. For a time it was happening so often that I began to routinely test for it during the first few sessions, just to make sure we didn’t miss it. And I still try to keep an eye out for it!

So, if you have even an inkling that resistance or self-sabotage might be an issue for you, add that as an intention to the prayer you say right before doing the code. Or change your focus to healing the resistance itself to make sure it doesn’t continue to get in your way.

Jeanine Byers

Know that you are meant to heal

http://www.meanttoheal.com

Here is a link to Part 1