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Always Tell the Truth

Honesty isn’t just the best policy, it’s the only one!  When trust is broken it is hard to restore. Now, while telling the truth sounds simple, it takes commitment on three levels:

1) Verbally. Lying undermines confidence. For example, when somebody denies blowing the family budget or covers up a drinking problem, inevitably there is trouble. But when each partner knows in his or her heart that the other will hold to the truth in love,  the relationship becomes stronger and more likely to weather the storm.

2) Behaviorally.  You become known as a person of integrity by keeping your word. So, if you make a commitment to do something, do it, even if it costs you or you get a better offer.

3) In actuality. Why make such a big deal about telling the truth? Because every relationship in your life is based on one thing – trust! When you violate that, you a) end up losing your influence and respect with others b) constantly live with the fear of being found out, which makes you insecure c) have to worry about what you said, and to whom d) ironically get to where you can’t believe others, for ‘as you live your life, you judge your neighbor.’ So, tell the truth!

Written and used by permission:  Tim Hetzner

Comments

  1. Hi,
    I am reading your book, and have a question. On page 221 it mentions Truth Focus Statements, and says I would have access to them on this website, but I have not been able to find them..
    What are these, and how are these used with the healing code procedure. The book does not mention this subject again, and I am worried that I will not have the effect of the healing code without these. Could you send me some examples of these TRUTH FOCUS STATEMENTS and inform me how to use them.
    Thanks and God bless you,
    Anita

    • The Truth Focus Statements are one of the bonuses on The Healing Code book site. Since you have the book, you have the url and the instructions on how to get the bonuses. Go to http://thehealingcodebook.com, click on register your book and enter the password that you will find in the book. Then you can get your bonuses, including The Truth Focus Statements.